I am also praying more -- daily for my H and his safety, my D for the events of this MLC to be minimal on her, and for me to heal, grow, and see the path I need to take in the future. I found that if I try to look to far into the future, I get overwhelmed. Taking it day by day!
I know for me this is about all we can do. I pray for continued guidance and if you do this on a day by day basis it seems that He will never allow you to get to far off the path He as set forth for you.
