I've looked for a more secular alternative to DivorceCare and not had much luck, bigybiz, at least not locally in my neck of the woods. frown I would also very much welcome an alternative.

The only other thing that I have attended is a local meetUp group linked to the Beyond Affairs Network. IT's not really the same at all, but at least it's a few people with something in common. Unfortunately, the local group has only met three times since May, so it's not been an awful lot of help... And the most we've ever had was 6 people, the other meetings had only 3, so sparse about covers it.

Painter, I like hearing about your painting. More, please?

(((((Painter)))))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16