WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Cherry]

That's great news of going to the football together. This is what I explained to my wh is important. That where the kids are concerned we are still a team in parenting. I've seen kids with divorced parents worrying about who to invite to events and things because there parents can't stand the sight of each other. And that is absolutely what I don't want. I don't want the d full stop, but I really don't want it to affect them. I want them to know that we love them very much and they will always come first. So it makes me happy that you can both put differences aside where they are concerned.

Db is hard. It's hard wether to know if we should give them the cold treatment or wether we should keep ourselves upbeat and friendly. I find for me the latter helps, it helps me in myself to. Holding anger towards him and being cold drains me more. If needed, I know you can be firm so not to get walked over or taken advantage of. The way I see it, is we are showing them what they set to loose. If pouty and angry all the time, I feel that would just conform to them that they are making the right decision.