Hey, B3! I'm so sorry you've had to come here, but this is a very good place to find support, help, and advice. I couldn't agree more about finding a good L. I was pretty shocked at how my H acted (there was good and bad) during the course of our D. Not sure how much was H driven or L driven, but that's why you need someone on your team with knowledge and experience.
Stay strong!
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16