I agree with kml get yourself a lawyer especially if your H has a the advice of one on tap!
I wouldn't have believed how far my W would go but with a Police Officer SIL whispering in her ear she raised an unjustifiable court order against me. When I engaged a solicitor he advised/noted that the legal document was a downloaded template, poorly completed by my W, and ultimately meant I was in a strong legal position to challenge it.
I'm not as experienced as some of the DBers/vets here so the advice I can offer is limited but will be rooting for you all the same.
Wishing you better times ahead.
Me 50, ExW 49 T21, M13+ S15, S13 BD #1: 25-Jan-2016 (EA confirmed & ILYBINILWY) Sept-2016 Mediated Sep. starts Oct-2016 W petitions for D Jan-2017 R w OM admitted/confirmed Jun-2018 D'd
