Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #5]

[ForGump]

A small typo in my post above, maybe a Freudian slip?

I have been trying to tell myself that after the D, I can make a happy, healthy, joyful home with my W

I meant to write, "I can make a happy, healthy, joyful home WITHOUT my W.

albac -- thanks for your camaraderie on this journey. It's hard to feel the movement in the beginning. Just the pain. But eventually, as you hold your ground, or even improve yourself, you start to see things for what they are. And your W's behavior and her choices for what they are. I am enormously sad for my marriage and my W and for my kids, but this forum has helped me stay more grounded than I would have alone.