WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Cherry]

I am a believer in being careful with what you say, as you never know when you may be in that position and it comes back and bites you in the ass. And this definitely applies to these people that support affairs, it's like jinxing yourself- what if you were in the position, what would you think. Wouldn't it just be awful for these people that support extramarital affairs end up the spouse who is cheated on....

I agree with jug. It is a bit tricky to follow some of these rules regarding cake eating. But in this situation, I totally think you made the right call. Like you say, if they were at home- they would be getting yelled at. It is much better for them and you to enjoy your day and do something fun.

The texting thing is tough, and I think we do all have a slip up here and there where we persue and don't get the reaction we would like. Put it down to experience, learn from it and leave it at that.