Cld - I know marriage problems hurt people, but here is my viewpoint: I have studied as many variables in my sitch as a can, and the study is ongoing. There have been or are enough WAW's and/or MLC women here, along with other sources, for me to know that what my wife is doing is not understood by her, possibly not remembered, and certainly not personal. The self- justification, defensive positions, and models of argument all fit the script; all of this matches either a drug addict's or a teenager's flow of rationalization. That said, for right or wrong, better or worse, the woman I write about here is still my wife, still someone I choose to feel love for, and above all things, she remains the mother of my one and only son. I ask that you respect that. Her behavior may be wrong, but it is not evil. I am here to get support which helps ME to improve myself. Thanks.
In other news, I bought my son his first basketball today - spent the morning on the court. Great weather here today and was a whole lot of fun.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
