PacLove - it really depends. I think we're on very different paths but with similar questions. For me I'm doing my best at leaving W alone to travel her own journey. She left to get away from me (she said to get away from the "noise" and try to decide on where her path lies) so other than in very rare circumstances such as a mutual close friend we hardly ever "like" the same things.

In your case I stand by my earlier comment that you've been moved into the "friend-zone". Is that a tunnel that has cheese in it? I'm not sure. You refer to your W as a WAW. Is she seeming happy in her new life? Doing the "friend" thing and paying attention to her feed and reciprocating in the "likes" keeps that channel of communication open and you on her radar. I can't see it doing any "harm" other than the fact that she's not feeling the loss of you at all.

It may be a bit drastic and perhaps tough. I know it would be tough for me but as a 180 and experiment perhaps shut down Facebook altogether for a week. Don't even log in. You could post something about you taking a break so your other friends don't worry. If your W reaches out to you in other ways then you'll know that she's been watching you and caring about what you are up to. If not - then well - friend zone.


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