T, you're absolutely right. He does need to see the new reality he has set out for himself. I honestly don't hold any hope that even that would make him see the difference. I just don't hold any hope of us reconciling anymore, I just don't see it as what he wants. Still I'm no mind reader.

I think that shall be my stance, pass it on to my L. If he wants us to be civil towards each other for the sake of the children, I see it as very critical the L deals with this. Otherwise the anger and emotions could take over and damage any chance of that being the case.

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16