I know you're right. As Jack_Three_Beans advised previously I need to do better with my anger/resentment, use it as a shield rather than a sword. If I'm feeling the same way when she arrives home later, will make a quick escape and go off to the gym or go whack some tennis balls.
BTW Job do you ever sleep or take a break from the board?
Me 50, ExW 49 T21, M13+ S15, S13 BD #1: 25-Jan-2016 (EA confirmed & ILYBINILWY) Sept-2016 Mediated Sep. starts Oct-2016 W petitions for D Jan-2017 R w OM admitted/confirmed Jun-2018 D'd