Life has changed, and I choose to grow from it.

[Cherry]

Lovely SH. It's pretty late here, and my little baby brain is somewhat turning in for the night. Still, I read every word and echo l the wise words of the others. We can all see now ways we could have been a better spouse, that's a given. But there's no way really of knowing all this before we started. Maybe they should make us sit an exam before we marry!

You're broken, but not defeated. Not in the slightest, we are just a little hurt, had a little beaten- but we are still here.

I think you need to take some time for you. You come across with a very caring nature, giving us support and words of kindness- give yourself a little of that. Do what you need L to do to get yourself stronger.

I guess none of us really know what to expect if our spouses came back, who knows what it may look like. It's best to not focus on that but just make ourselves the best person we can be regardless. It probably does come to a point where we question if we could take them back. I try not to ponder those thoughts, I find it kind of gives me a false sense of hope thinking what would this look like. If it did happen, then we would just embark on yet another journey.

Keep focussed on you, you are a lovely caring person. Show yourself some of that compassion and love.