That is why you are an inspiration here. Despite a not perfect M/R with W you have excelled at pumping your life full of...... well.... life. I envy you in that, but I know the only reasons I don't do likewise are self imposed. I am juggling, tweaking, reflecting and will find the right balance for me. Thedesire is there, the knowledge of its importance and realisabiliy too. I will achieve this but have a good way to go yet. Thank you for proving it is possible within a difficult situation.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together