SH, I think most of us have to be dragged kicking and screaming before we face up to things.. plenty of 2x4s of stop focusing on your spouse.

I've faced many a challenge in my life, and this is definitely up there on the hardest thing..

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16