lost,

My thought is to let it happen...
I mean you really can not stop it if that is what she wants.

I encourage that you speak with a L to ensure that finances and any other key points that you may need to protect since it is a 50 50 state I believe you indicated....

Then what you do is bury your self into the finer points of the LRT as laid out in DB/DR.
Read the feedback from everyone in your thread....
What you should be doing is being expressed to you by many that have traveled this road...

Begin with a beginners mindset.....
Hang in there....


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine