Still alive, still need guidance.

[sandi2]

Steve McQueen was way before your time.......but he was the coolest. Women wanted him, and men wanted to be like him.

There may be a man (or even fictional character) closer to your generation that you admire the way he presents himself as "cool" (especially with women). Someone who doesn't show desperation, co-dependency, a$$-kisser, etc. He oozes with self-confidence. He's not flashy, b/c he doesn't need that kind of attention. He doesn't run off at the mouth, and you know he is in charge of himself and his actions. He gets the job done. He doesn't go out of his way to be offensive, but it doesn't bother him if he doesn't please everyone..........b/c he's not a people pleaser. He doesn't put up with a woman's b.s., and he has no problem moving forward on his own.