I am very happy to read that you let it all go. I think it's the guilt eating at him and that's why he had to tell you where he was going, etc., i.e., just like a teenager has to over elaborate on things to parents when they know that they are possibly going to be doing something that is considered a no no. I'm glad you didn't allow this stuff to take up more room in your head.

I hope and pray that he continues to step up to the plate and be a good father and remains attentive to their needs, etc.

Enjoy your weekend!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.