Oh Sara, I'm so sorry you had to go through that in labour! That's absolutely awful, and at a time when you're so vulnerable and need someone. My last labour turned into an emergency, for both me and baby, and it was a long labour, and high risk so had to be monitored very closely. It's a hard one, my dear is he wouldn't even be contactable when I go into labour. I do like colys suggestion of having someone with me while in active labour (my last active labour was 18 hours!) and if he wants to be there, be there for the final stage. But yes surfer you're right I have zero expectations of him being there or being supportive.
Going to get myself up and at um. Got some GAL plans in for today for me and S , see a friend and then see some family. Feels a bit of an effort after a poor nights sleep and sickness, but I'm sure a little fresh air will make me feel a lot better. I haven't seen wh for a good few days, this is becoming the norm, and helps me to keep my chill a little better!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
