Get your 'back up plan' there. I would expect nothing though and have H as your backup plan. If he wants to behave normally - 'be there' - that's then a bonus for him, but don't expect that - you will be fine with your back up person. Just seeing this from a practical DB viewpoint. Zero expectations having read PsySaras experience (PsySara - I am so sorry this was not the beautiful, loving experience it should have been for you).
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