Wow, this is a tough call and I can understand your frustration but Mlc will take a long time and she may be unsure of her decision so she keeps checking back--
I think because the confusion is in them and has little to do with us or the M, she may not get the answers she is looking for or the happiness she wants by either staying or leaving…
I think this process takes time
Best bet as you are doing,,take care of you find a hobby..golf, tennis ,yoga make some new friends get an animal take a class be a good friend to her but at same time create a new life without her since she is only willing to share a little bit of herself. she may get curious But most importantly, you will find other areas of interest to keep yourself busy and maybe a little less available-
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