Take rest, SH, we all need a time out from the fight every now and again. Go back to a beginner's mind. Ask yourself how have you been taking care of the father of your children? Ask how you've been doing your self care. My coach asks me that constantly, "What have you done for Sara, lately?"

So, what have you done for SH lately?

M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3