Lost, don't explain to her "why now and not when I asked you" stuff. Just do it, it's okay. If you make changes in yourself now, like lose weight or get teeth fixed or be more pleasant, it will anger your S, because they wanted you to change then, and not now. But that is ok! Change for the better, maybe for W, maybe for the next person. But do it and don't justify it!
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016
