Two hands on the pole, and don't even reel any line in... yet.
I think you're getting excited. You might just yank the fish off the hook.
I wouldn't post on snapchat. She's probably in withdrawls, and you're a safe copy of what she had. She'll want the real thing soon enough.
Lasting change means her coming to YOU. Wanting the change to happen will be a very big hurdle for her, and you helping won't put her legs underneath her any sooner. Don't baby step yourself - just keep posting, and know we're here to vent to.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)