Well....W signed the divorce papers this morning. I will go in to sign on Monday morning. I feel a sense of relief at this point. I can always pursue more custody later on down the line if I feel it is in the kids' best interest.
My mom said I should celebrate (getting primary physical custody of the kids) and while I am happy about that, not much to celebrate in terms of why it all had to happen.
Again, I know that the philosophy here is to focus on yourself, etc. I will do that for sure. But that doesn't change the fact that my soon to be EX WIFE has some very serious psychological and emotional issues that I honestly believe she will never figure out or at least want to admit. It makes me really sad for her and sad for my kids, because she will never be any sort of stability in their lives. I feel like she is going to just continue the same pattern.