Hi Bttrfly Thank you so much for the support :-) you are amazing xxx
The leaves where I live have not changed yet and they are saying a summer like fall so I will have to drive up to the mountains for the foliage.
The gov't called me today and cleared up all money's owed to me since I am a single parents. They mentioned they called XW and any support payments will be pulled directly from her pay check. I'm sure they advised her that the 5K plus that she claimed will have to be paid back.
She did have to transfer $ to me. 100 bucks , I'll put it in the girls accounts. When she transfered money to me in the past she had to create a password so I can accept the money transfer. Usually the hint is : oldest kid Now she never changed it in the last 15 months. Mind you she didn't transfer much either lol
Anyway she sends the transfer and the hint was my oldest D16 nickname So I try her name. It failed
I write her and ask her . " who is ( nickname) She writes back immediately " Lollol ... Why it's D14 of course, she's my ( nickname) D16 is ( other nickname) !!!!!"
I reply one word "thanks " Totally wrong but it's ok lol Now I mentioned to her last week D14 has a doctors appointment for respiratory tests.
She doesn't ask about it .
She does again say" if you need any help, let me know!!!!!!" She loves the multiple dots and exclamation points.
I don't reply to it but it does bother me. So a few hours later I ask" how can you help me, what is your suggestions to help?"
This was 2 hours ago, I am so curious to see what she comes up with. Maybe she'll offer to babysit ( like a teen) or close the pool for the season lol I have no clue. But curious. Probably won't answer but it did no harm.
Have a great weekend everyone. I'm without a boot so I will surely have an adventure.
Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015