So I don't know if this is want I should have done but I looked at our phone records...there was a number that my husband had been texting like crazy...it was a girl. I called it and left a message and said that I would appreciate it if she would stop talking to my husband. Then I confronted my husband and he said he was so sorry and would stop. I feel like I want to beg and plead again that we fix things. Someone help me!!
Sweetie - this is why we asked you not to look. All we can do is give you a big hug.
On a good note - feel proud of yourself that you stood up for yourself and for your marriage and it worked - at least for now. You were lucky - for many people that sort of thing only makes it worse when their spouse refuses to stop like mine did. No matter what though - snooping will hurt you and you've been hurt a lot already.
Part of what we talk about here is detaching and letting go. Not because we want you to stop caring but so that you can have the space and room to heal and grow without getting hurt over and over again. You still have a lot of healing and growing to do.
Your Uncle A is sending you a special "you'll be OK girl" hug.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
