Ok ... so just because its free I will give you some advice.
Snooping .... stop doing that, you have ample time and its driving you crazy and you start to get yourself all spun up and when that happens you start digging/snooping and looking right? Yup ... I have the killer T-Shirt from that tour. Here is the thing, what are you looking to find that you have not already imagined is happening? Who is it hurting more .... you. find a hobby and realize she will do what she will, its time you start doing something other than worry about what/where/who she is doing because at the moment she will continue to do those things regardless while you stress yourself silly about it ..... this is where GAL/PMA and all that comes with it comes into play. All the snooping in the world is not going to help your sitch, so why waste that energy there?
