Interesting albac. My XW was playing around with the OM but didn't want to proceed with D because I think she wanted to keep her options open in case she changed her mind. When I served her (my lawyer had her guy sitting outside my house at 6am and met her at her car and scared the you-know-what out of her!)she couldn't believe it. She was in a rage for a few days and kept telling my kids that I was the one who started this. But after a few days everything changed. She knew I meant business and our R changed immediately. I was back in the position of leading man and she knew I wasn't putting up with her BS anymore.
Strength and Honor.
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.