Albac - 7 months in. Life goes on.

[albac]

Gump,

Divorce has never ever been mentioned by either of us. But that is only because my W is a very different person to most.

In my W's mind changing her name and starting a new relationship she believes the day she walked out is like the day or marriage was over (divorced) the piece of paper and the marriage in her mind were all gone that day she left.

Likewise I see no point in me pushing for D as we are already living as if it has happened. It's irrelevant to me right now.