WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Cherry]

I'm glad you are in a much clearer place, it's so easy for a little wobble to get us, but it's how you overcome these feelings that is important. I usually find that after a wobble, I come out stronger. That seems the case too. And I agree to building a non toxic environment for the children. It would be oh so easy to take the approach of hating one another. As a child, lots of my friends had D parents who hated one another, didn't see or communicate with each other. I also know people now who dislike their ex so much! Personally this is what I want to avoid. Yes I am hurt, but if I can't save my m, then I would like to build a strong friendly r with him to allow us to be in the same room as one another and raise our children. He states this is his intentions too, but we shall see!

Glad you get the kids on Saturday, sure they will love a movie trip with you, and you're absolutely right on not inviting w, it would probably come across as persuing, so just enjoy your time with them.

The birthday thing is something I will have coming up shortly, I'm not sure if I'll even get him just a card, or just leave it to a gift and present from S.

Super proud of you and how you've overcome the wobble!