Cherry.Papers filed "am I making a mistake".focus!

[Cherry]

Grr I wrote a big reply and my iPhone decided to crash and loose it!

Surfer, thank you. I do feel I'm in a stronger place than a few weeks, I hope the little ones would be proud of me! The calmness is absolute paramount to me right now, my health and therefore that of my baby is so important. And I agree, it's totally his journey, I've already told him I will play no part in breaking up the family, so I don't need to tell him this again. I also accept that it's all totally out of my control. So I'll control what's on my side.

Phoebe, thanks for popping by. I totally agree. He's already told me he's filed, and that he's moving. I don't see what else he needs to say, I'm not prepared to be the person he comes to point the finger of blamevat our spew at. I'm not making it look obvious, if I see him I'll be cordial and calm, but if I can avoid contact, I shall.
I also agree on the L front, in any situation, even the smartest person can allow emotions to cloud judgement. Plus I've enough on my plate than deal with a whole heap of paaperwork!