Cherry, glad all seems to be going well on the pregnancy front.
It seems you are going through a calm period with H. This is good and hopefully you will both communicate better during this period.
I think yes the low profile is good, but the kind profile is that which will serve you best I think.
You don't have any work to do other than that. If H wants to view houses, D, move out, it's his roller coaster. You don't need to get on it so don't. My thoughts are that he will try to encourage you into his circus less now. I think he is seeing it isn't working.
So with lots of hard work done all seems much clearer for you I guess and you can be in a happy place.
If you look back to those times when you were so messed up in your head, you really have come a long way. Your S (and B) will be proud of you.
Surfer.
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