Clay-- I'm new to your situation. Was your Ex-W actually diagnosed with BPD, or just suspected of BPD by you?

Based on how unfair you feel the outcome of the D was ... it seems your lawyer did a poor job....

The divorce was final a year ago. What's making it so difficult to just let her go emotionally, and move on with your life?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final