(((((Phoebe))))), no reason to worry. Things are very calm and stable. I work my 2 (sometimes 3!) parttime jobs, go to choir practice, try to catch up with everything else in my life (socializing, taking care of the pets, exploring new job opportunies, signing up for college, and painting).
I have promised to contribute two paintings to a gallery night in October at my studio collective. I have one ready and another just needs a couple of hours' work, so it won't be stressful.
Every week, I see my IC. Divorce Care group starts in the end of September. I'm feeling pretty good (perhaps due to some of my socializing).
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17