Albac - 7 months in. Life goes on.

[albac]

Thanks for dropping by Gump,

I don't even know how to answer your question.

I guess I am doing ok, I am for the first time in a long time at peace and it feels good.

This past week I have finally tuned in to a lot of things. Life and what I want out of it. I have finally after a long fight dropped the rope and fully detached from my W.
I feel like a new man with so many possibilities and exciting prospects ahead.

Now my W is in a "relationship" with OM it was the last straw that released me from he prison I have been in.

Just to clarify I have not given up on her just conceded I have no control and let her go. I'm not burning bridges or spewing hate. I am being the best man I can for me and my D2 and no matter what happens I will hold my head high.

I have started talking to other women, I am not ready for a relationship and I have been open about that. I needed to get out I needed to restart my life and it feels good to know there are people that care about me and want my time. It has helped a lot!

After these past 8 month my W had taken away every bit of confidence and sapped the life from me. Finally I am fighting my way back to he person I want and should be.

The evidence was there all along I just chose to ignore the signs. My W has no love for me and what lead us to separation was the fact we didn't work together because we both weren't doing what we should have been. The difference I am working on myself and have made progress where my W has pushed her issues aside and is trying the same thing that failed her last time.

So until she wants to change if she ever does, she is not the one for me.

I will stay here and keep up to date with everyone's sitchs and hopefully
In a years time or so I will be telling a much different Story of how my life is going.

A side note, to everyone feeling helpless. Feeling like there is no way out. It does get better! It's slow and painful but it gets better! We were fine before we met our partners and we WILL be fine after they are gone! Stay strong and stick to your core values and things will get better.