Coly, haha, skank, that had me, lol. I honestly pity her, she has no moral compass and is thus unable to have and hold authentic Rs in her life.

So what I have not mentioned is that OW was a "friend" for several years. We had a circle of friends and our children were a group of buddies. We all spent entirely too much time together. She pursued a friendship with H my outside of the circle and manipulated a LOT of time together with him. All the while picking up my kids and smiling in my face.

I don't think about her or focus on her. She is nothing to me. What is hard to accept is that he let this happen. And that he was so weak and selfish. Even though he has made many changes, has significant regret and remorse, I still do not respect him as I want to respect a person that I am married to.

JRuss, we were in MC for a year and we decided to take a step back and focus more on ourselves. She was great and right on the money. I found myself going in the same circles and it kept me in a negative loop. I do think a large part of piecing is time. How much time, well I have no idea!

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela