Lost -- I agree w/ the sentiment that you shouldn't have to give up the MBR. But you cannot perfectly predict how your W is going to react to your declarations. Yes, odds are -- let's call it 90% probability -- that she'll shut the damn phone off or leave the MBR herself. But what if that 10% chance happens -- she feels belligerent in the moment and tells you to shove it. What are you going to do? You don't want to standing there w/ your ... pride in your hand. Know your ultimate move before you confront her.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final