Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 5)

[JRuss]

I don't know, FG -- it just seems like something she'd discuss with her IC (divorce coach). She's not a sadist. She genuinely agonizes over this and does not want me to be hurt. And this follows so quickly on the heels of her moving out of the MBR that it doesn't feel like any sort of move toward me, just something she thinks she might be able to fake her way through and have me see the light that it really just wasn't meant to be. My IC says go but protect myself re expectations, fwiw.

Definitely would research the best possible MC, but I don't live in a huge town, so options are a bit limited relative to a bigger market. My IC has a couple of names, so I'm going to do some digging.