Lost, when/if you decide to enforce your boundary, you need to go all in right away. Be patient with starting to enforce your boundary, because you don't want to waffle back and forth on it.

I'm hoping some vets will stop in and provide suggestion on the best way for you to approach your WW on the boundary..

M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized