I remember when I found out was pregnant for D I had just been fitted for a bridesmaids dress for one of my older sister's weddings and I was too frightened to tell her has the style she chose wasn't very forgiving and I knew I would be around 17/18 weeks pregnant on the big day. Turned out okay as I was still able to fit into a size 8 dress!
I think you are doing great distancing yourself from him. Blue says that sort of thing sometimes makes them second guess themselves but as you say who knows what goes on in their heads!!
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')