WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time

[Coly23]

Hey Blu, sorry you are having such a tough time in your R at the moment. I cant imagine the turmoil you are going through trying to make sense of everything.

It makes me sad because you have been so giving of your support on this board and you have given so many of us hope that reconciliation can happen but I am also grateful that you are honest about how hard reconciliation can be. I think there is a danger of thinking that if our WAS/S's come back to us that the majority of the work would have been done however I have read a great many posts on the 'Piecing our Marriage Together' board and it scares me to death.

You know that the OW is a skank, she has nothing on you. Your H chose to come back to you even though you didn't really DB very well! Maybe you give her too much space in your thoughts. She doesn't deserve it!