CLD, I would watch saying that divorces are a result of a "feminist" agenda. That's pretty insulting to women in general. And if you look through alot of these posts, divorces come from people with great family backgrounds. No one is immune.
Q, You can analyze it anyway you want, but the bottom line is that every situation and family is different. Your W may or may not have been influenced by certain things, but the truth remains that you don't know. You pursuing a "reason" is a form of control. You feel if you can find a reason, then you'll be at peace or make you feel better about it. Doesn't work that way. You'll find more questions than answers and in any event, it wouldn't change the situation as it exists right now.
Continue to concentrate on yourself and the things that make YOU happy. Again, it won't be immediate, but over time those voices in your head that are constantly asking 'why', will quiet.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
