Just keep plugging along

[Coconut]

cbtdad,

You may be worried about OM because your not getting some and looking for a reason other than your W just doesn't feel that way about you.

But you would know if there was OM. that Wayward mindset is not easy for them to hide, you would see the disrespect and see her withdraw. From what you write, it sounds like she hasn't moved forward as much as you'd like, but it does not sound like she has withdrawn which is what she would do with OM around.

Just remember bud, you are getting through the really hard part, and your doing it in a healthy way, so it will have a good chance of lasting... keep building a solid foundation, a quickee would be more like building a house of cards.