Ginger, it is a slippery slope. But I was willing to stand my ground with my WW every time she stepped foot into the MBR if she hadn't left. Definitely do not physically remove her, but I don't think she would stay if every time she walked in there he repeated his intolerance of an open marriage, and if every time she left the room her stuff was then removed from the bedroom.

and as doodler would probably add:

If she refuses to leave, just turn down the AC all the way and steal all of the covers at night. and no one can blame you if you have a dream that your in a Bruce Lee movie and accidently kick her out of bed, right????


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized