Eagle, You sound so strong today. I'm glad you are taking your S6 to the golf tournament. That will be so much fun for the both of you. Your GAL activities sound great!
I also like the fact that you are going to participate in the parent/teacher conferences. Definitely speak to his teacher about his anxiety issues. She needs to know this in order to better help him in the classroom.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.