Legolas - I noticed your post over on MLC and thought I'd check out your thread. You've not gotten a lot of visitors nor many answers to your questions so first "Hi!".

I don't have a lot of answers for you myself but perhaps a question or two and maybe we can get some others in with feedback.

When you say you are doing a "LRT" - exactly what do you mean by that? Is it just the non-contact?

I believe you mention that your W "checked out" of the marriage 3 years before you moved 4 months ago (?) and she didn't follow. Is that true?

How are you doing on your own journey through the fog? What improvements are you making yourself to make yourself better / stronger / better?

Do you have any indication of your W's current status or intentions going forward? Is she happy where she is for the long term? Is she looking to move on? Any talk of D?


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T27, M26
S21, D23
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