Its been a week since I've posted. Things are still the same. I think that is what's bothering me. I can tell my patience is getting shorter. My mind is also starting to go back to thinking bad things. Wondering if there is more to this. Is there someone else. Is she getting the attention that I'm not getting elsewhere. I don't have any evidence or none of actions would lead to that. But it's stil in the back of my mind. I guess it's in the the back of my mind from the last time around. For so long she texted and carried on an EA that turned to PA eventually without my knowledge. So I think back to that time and starting thinking bad thoughts.
Anyways I was really coming in to vent. I don't want to put time limits on anything, but it's getting harder and harder being in this relationship without things I need. Both our MC and my IC says this can happen and it's a new cycle that we have to work through Our MC said that this is a good thing because when we do have sex it will be because she wants to, not because she feels "pestered" to do so Also that it is common for couples to have a hard time to going back to sharing bedroom. My IC, who also does a large amount of MC, says that she sees this a lot because we get comfortable sleeping better, not worried about turning off tv, lights, etc She suggested after I told her my wife laughter about what I said in MC that we need to go to store and get a long bed right away
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
