WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time

[Coconut]

Blu, that pains me to read. You've been through so much, you want to love him so bad, it's hard to read that you don't feel "that" way about him and question if you ever will. How long do you wait and see, how long to you keep up the struggle, when is enough enough??? Only you can answer those things, it's hard to know when your past giving up too soon.

You always hear about M that survive an A and how they are stronger and better than they ever were before.. but I wonder if there is a limit to how "involved" the A was before it is just too much to come back from.

I hope you find your happiness, I am praying and rooting for you.