You will have others comment on this Tyler, but imo if you don't want to get "friend-zoned," you have to work on detaching again. Let her come to you with little questions and R talk. That's her job, not yours.

When you burn a bridge, you fix it, right? W burned the R bridge, so it's her job to fix it.

You have to back way off and show her that you're not her friend, you're a man and deserve to be treated like a man.