Confused on What to Do 2

[Drew]

Eagle, Eagle, Eagle, you're not listening.

Go back and read what Eric posted to you. Then read it again.

Then read this:

This is the most frustrating thing for me. I need to find a way to figure this out. I don't think with my W and her mental state being tough with her is the best option. With her abandonment issues, her rape issues, daddy issues I think being tough with her will push her over the edge. I also know I can't be too easy on her either. She and I are acting as friends right now. We haven't argued since really the week this started. She hasn't shown me any anger for a while. If I could figure out some type of hybrid of the two it might work.

That entire paragraph is about her.

This is the most frustrating thing for me. I need to find a way to figure this me out. I don't think with my W and her mental state being tough with her is the best option. With her abandonment issues, her rape issues, daddy issues I think being tough with her will push her over the edge. I also know I can't be too easy on her either. She and I are acting as friends right now. We haven't argued since really the week this started. She hasn't shown me any anger for a while. If I could figure out some type of hybrid of the two it might work.

There, fixed it.

Look Eagle, DB is counterintuitive. You keep trying to figure out the right TACTIC to win your wife back. If you just say the right thing or do the right thing your wife will come back and you'll live happily ever after. Um, don't work that way. They smell right thru that. They know you're doing it just to win them back and as soon as you do, they're scared you'll go right back to the way you were.

Eric is trying to get you to work on YOU. We like to say around here - be the man only a fool would leave.

You had a perfect opportunity last Saturday. You had plans to do something for yourself, she came up with something, and you caved.